Wedding dress codes - what do they mean and what are they?

Choosing the right attire for a wedding can be a challenge, especially when the invitation specifies a specific dress code. The dress code is an important part of wedding etiquette and helps guests understand what kind of attire is expected.

In this article, we'll go over the most common wedding dress codes and what they mean, so you can feel confident and stylish on the big day.

Festive costume/coat

Tails, or formal wear, is the most formal dress code and is used for very elegant events, often in the evening. This dress code signals a high degree of formality and tradition, making it perfect for weddings that follow classical norms. The formal suit/jacket is commonly used for weddings held in a traditional or formal setting, such as a church or a fancy banqueting hall.

For men

• Black coat: a classic black coat is a must, it should be well tailored as it is important that the coat has a good fit to give an elegant impression.
• White bow tie and waistcoat: a white bow tie and matching waistcoat are standard and the waistcoat should ideally be in the same material as the coat to create a uniform look.
• White gloves: these can also be worn to complete the formal look, the palms should be clean and the gloves should be of high quality.

For women

• Full-length evening dress: an elegant dress that reaches the floor, preferably in finer materials such as silk or velvet. The dress can have details such as lace or embroidery to add an extra touch of glamour.
• Accessories: long gloves and elegant jewellery are common features, remember to choose jewellery that complements the dress without overshadowing it.

Tuxedo

The tuxedo is another formal dress code, but slightly less strict than the tails. It is often worn for evening weddings and other festive occasions. The tuxedo gives a stylish and sophisticated look, making it a popular choice for weddings. This dress code allows for style and elegance, making it ideal for weddings with a festive atmosphere.

For men

• Black tuxedo: a well-fitting black tuxedo is standard, it is important that the tuxedo is tailored to ensure a perfect fit.
• Black bow tie: a black bow tie is required, and the shirt should be white. A tuxedo shirt often has a special collar and may have details such as pleating.
• Patent shoes: black patent shoes complete the look, just make sure the shoes are well polished to give a professional impression.

For women

• Elegant dress: a long dress or a festive cocktail dress is suitable, the dress can be in a bold colour or with patterns to give a personal touch.
• Jewellery and accessories: choose elegant jewellery to complement the dress, a beautiful clutch bag can also be a great addition.

Dark suit

Dark suit is one of the most common dress codes for weddings in Sweden and is suitable for both day and evening events. It is flexible and allows for personal style while maintaining a certain formality. A dark suit is more casual than a tuxedo, but still formal enough to give an elegant feel.

For men

• Dark colour suit: dark blue, dark grey or black suit is standard, the suit should be of high quality and well fitting.
• White shirt and tie: a white shirt is a must, and the tie can be in any colour, just remember to avoid black tie, as it can be perceived as sad.
• Formal shoes: black leather shoes in Derby or Oxford style are preferred, make sure the shoes are clean and well polished.

For women

• Dress or skirt: a dress or skirt that reaches the knee or longer and the material should be of finer quality, such as silk or chiffon.
• Accessories: choose elegant shoes and jewellery that complement the outfit with a beautiful handbag that can also be a great addition.

 

Jacket

The blazer is a slightly less formal dress code and is well suited for weddings that have a more relaxed atmosphere. It is a dress code that allows more freedom and is perfect for weddings with a more relaxed yet festive feel. This dress code is perfect for weddings held outdoors or in a more informal setting.

For men

• Jacket and trousers: a nice jacket with matching trousers, preferably in a darker colour. The jacket can be a different colour than the trousers to give a more casual look.
• Shirt and tie: a shirt can be worn, and tie is optional, if you choose to wear a tie, choose one that matches the jacket.

For women

• Festive dress or pantsuit: a shorter dress or an elegant pantsuit is appropriate. Remember to choose clothes in good materials and with a nice fit.
• Stylish shoes: choose shoes that are both stylish and comfortable. Heels can be a good choice, but make sure you can wear them all day.

Odd jacket

The odd jacket is a dress code that involves wearing a jacket that doesn't match the trousers, giving a more casual yet classy look. This dress code allows for creativity and personalised style, making it perfect for weddings with a more casual atmosphere. Odd blazer gives the opportunity to express personal style and creativity.

For men

• Odd jacket: a jacket in a different colour from the trousers, often in a patterned or colourful style, keep in mind that the jacket should be of high quality and well-fitting.
• Trousers: trousers can be in a neutral colour such as grey or beige, avoid combining too many patterns to keep the look balanced.
• Shirt and tie: a shirt is required, and a tie can be optional, feel free to experiment with colours and patterns to add a personal touch.

For women

• Combination of garments: an elegant blouse with a quirky jacket and trousers or skirt, remember to choose clothes that complement each other in style and colour.
• Festive shoes: choose shoes that give a festive feel, heels or stylish ballerinas can be good options.

Summer dressy/daytime/casual/cocktail

This dress code is more relaxed and allows for personal style, but it does not mean you can come in casual clothes. It is important to dress festively and stylishly even if the dress code is more informal. Summer formal/casual/cocktail allows for creativity and comfort, making it ideal for summer weddings or more casual events.

For men

• Smart trousers and shirt: chinos or smart trousers with a smart shirt work well here. A blazer can be added to enhance the look.
• Jacket is optional: if you choose to wear a jacket, make sure it is of good quality and fits well.

For women

• Short dress or pantsuit: a festive dress or pantsuit in a lighter material, remembering to choose colours and patterns that suit the season.
• Stylish shoes and accessories: choose elegant shoes and jewellery to complete the look, a beautiful handbag can also be a great addition.

 

Feel confident and stylish on your wedding day

By following these guidelines and adapting your outfit to the given dress code, you can feel confident and elegant on your wedding day. Whether it's a formal tuxedo or a more casual summery outfit, your thoughtfulness and respect for the couple's wishes will shine through.